I've been dealing with a girl that recently cheated on me and left me to be with someone else. I feel as though I'm not enough for her, she was gentle and a soft person that loved taking care of people and the way she apologizes and talks to me just makes me miss her more. i started effexir again but everything still hurts so bad... I can't eat or drink anything that's not liquor. I've tried cutting her off, and I'm about to unadd her on all social media and delete her number, but her existence and the idea that she's with someone else romantically consumes me and it makes my life hell.
All my exes did this to me. You must cut contact and get rid of any triggers that make you think of her. It's going to be really painful, but I promise you'll feel better in time.
If you need someone to talk to, feel free to reach out to me.
Side note- cheating is absolutely not okay. If she really cared about you, she wouldn't have cheated. She sounds toxic and manipulative. If she cheated, then she's not the one. There is someone out there for you that will be so much better.
It's not a matter of being "good enough". You will be good enough for the right one.
I'm so sorry to hear that Kelean. That's really awful. I wish I could help in some way but I know words from a stranger online can often not mean anything. I do believe you'll get through this though. And it wasn't your fault at all. She cheated on you. She's the one in the wrong. And if she's the type of person to do that, it's probably a good thing to end it now. I think blocking her on everything would be good. You can certainly learn from this whole experience, but you don't want her to affect you any more than she already has. Again, I'm so sorry this happened to you. I believe you will get better in time, but I know it's really hard in the moment. You're not alone in this.
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I've been dealing with a girl that recently cheated on me and left me to be with someone else. I feel as though I'm not enough for her, she was gentle and a soft person that loved taking care of people and the way she apologizes and talks to me just makes me miss her more. i started effexir again but everything still hurts so bad... I can't eat or drink anything that's not liquor. I've tried cutting her off, and I'm about to unadd her on all social media and delete her number, but her existence and the idea that she's with someone else romantically consumes me and it makes my life hell.
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