I am starting to feel like my marriage is failing. me and my wife were Polyamours for awhile but we decided to take a break and focus on us, but my wife is on her phone 24/7 and when I tell her the flirting with people is making me uncomfortable she says she's gonna stop but yet everyday there's more people that flirt with her. it's really starting to bother me and I can tell my depression is getting worse because I feel like I have to complete with other people. some days I want to throw in the towel and others I just think to myself that she's just trying to be friends with people and they just want to flirt. I no longer know what to do. and my anxiety/depression has me believing that someday she's just gonna leave me for one of them. Im lost anymore
She does reassure me and we do talk about and she does try and tell people to stop and respect our relationship but the big heart in her doesn't stop talking to those people if they keep going because she doesn't want to hurt their feelings. It makes me so overwhelmed and frustrated because I love my wife more than anything in this world and I know she will never cheat on me but I just want her to get where if people are just out right disrespecting our relationship and disrespecting her asking them to stop she stops talking to them essentially because it causes problems between us.
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I am starting to feel like my marriage is failing. me and my wife were Polyamours for awhile but we decided to take a break and focus on us, but my wife is on her phone 24/7 and when I tell her the flirting with people is making me uncomfortable she says she's gonna stop but yet everyday there's more people that flirt with her. it's really starting to bother me and I can tell my depression is getting worse because I feel like I have to complete with other people. some days I want to throw in the towel and others I just think to myself that she's just trying to be friends with people and they just want to flirt. I no longer know what to do. and my anxiety/depression has me believing that someday she's just gonna leave me for one of them. Im lost anymore
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