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TaraEllis

522d

I feel like im already failing in my marriage. I get defensive when he tells me how he feels. I feel like its my fault and i need to fix it all. What is wrong with me? Why do i get defensive?

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    • Denotchka

      522d

      @TaraEllis You don’t, I took note that I didn’t see all w information on my first statement, and I was just covering possible scenarios because I don’t know the situation. Thanks for chiming in though. I’m also not trying to put any weird ideas t anybody’s head either. I just know from my own experience sometimes that happens as well.Glad it hasn’t and I praise Jesus you are on here with him. I will definitely keep you all in prayer for the Lord’s guidance.

    • Denotchka

      522d

      🙏

    • Denotchka

      522d

      Is he abusive or have you been abused by him or someone else? Sometimes there’s a root cause to our behaviors.

      • TaraEllis

        522d

        @Denotchka he isnt abuse but i think its rooted in the fact that i have a hard time being supportive idk why. Like what do i say? How do i comfort him? When he gets angry its like i cant help him. He doesn’t get angry at me its with his parents but i just don’t understand why i suck at being a good wife

        • Denotchka

          522d

          @TaraEllis You don’t, I took note that I didn’t see all w information on my first statement, and I was just covering possible scenarios because I don’t know the situation. Thanks for chiming in though. I’m also not trying to put any weird ideas t anybody’s head either. I just know from my own experience sometimes that happens as well.Glad it hasn’t and I praise Jesus you are on here with him. I will definitely keep you all in prayer for the Lord’s guidance.

      • Denotchka

        522d

        @Denotchka Sorry I didn’t see everything. Also ask yourself if this is disability based. Those of us who are disabled sometimes don’t always do proper relationship maintenance and sometimes it causes difficulty in communication.

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