Bullied into doing the dishes

I havent done the dishes is about a month. its never gone that long before. we dont have a dishwasher. I asked my husband to help me and he just shruggs it off. My mom told me the other day, "why aren't you doing it? you used to be so proud of your house." I am proud but with my depression how it is it grows and grows until its too big to handle by myself and I get overwhelmed when I try. I just struggle and give up. Anyone else like this or got tips?

I have been struggling with doing the dishes for about a month. I posted here a week ago and everyone was super nice and helpful but they still aren't done. My husband says "it's too much" and won't even help me do them. So I called my mom. oh lord. She told me it was ridiculous that I needed help when i should be able to do it by myself. But she's coming tomorrow to help me. I just hate how low she makes me feel when I already feel bad about it. (Shes not normally like this, shes normally very accepting of my disabilities, its just when it comes to keeping my house clean) I told her it was my depression that made the pile so high and my anxiety that makes it unbearable to conquer but she doesn't understand and just assumes I'm lazy. I can't afford to pay someone to do them or I would have. It would have saved me the embarrassment of that phone call to mom and the embarrassment of her coming over tomorrow.

Struggling with Day to Day Tasks