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Viynyl

560d

Also does anyone else feel like they are not valued when they speak? Like whenever you speak everyone ignores you and your needs, like as if you're just noise. I notice I get that feeling when talking to some people and its a very strong feeling.

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    • Asteroidrose

      545d

      yeah... im also deaf, so its hard for them to take me seriously. and for them to truly value me

    • Asteroidrose

      545d

      yeah... im also deaf, so its hard for them to take me seriously. and for them to truly value me

    • LexiTheLilypad

      549d

      YES, when im talking to my friends and I try to say something I just feel like noise. Empty noise.

    • Ellie11

      554d

      Yes… I’ll say something, ignored. My coworker says the exact same thing minutes later, praised. It makes me feel so sad.

    • pagan

      555d

      I would just walk away, I have actually many times. If someone doesn't want to listen find people that do.

    • Distressedcat3000

      560d

      This happens to me. It turns out I wasn't talking loud enough and I thought everyone hated me for no reason. Consider speaking with more confidence! Pump yourself up! You won't truly feel appreciated until you appreciate yourself. If they're really not listening, what you should do depends on the context. I can't recommend any action without a better understanding of the context. Is this high school? Work?

      • Viynyl

        560d

        @Distressedcat3000 These are friendsbi hang out with and I know they hear me because they acknowledge they hear me but just don't take what I say seriously/just stright up ignore me

        • Distressedcat3000

          560d

          @Viynyl Oh, that's tough. Do they do this often? I would think about if they really value you as a friend.

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