kikimae

291d

anyone else have issues making and keeping friends?

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  • Chesbro99

    291d

    It's so hard. I haven't been able to make any in 2 years now

  • edith

    291d

    For sure, I haven’t had any friends since high school that was 6 years ago 😅

  • kikimae

    291d

    Everyone seems to leave

  • Dire_Wolf

    291d

    Yep! It’s hard for me for lots of reasons. Also, people usually find me to be eccentric or are confused by me. Plus I suck at small talk… And it actually amuses me how truly bad I really am at it. However, I have come to truly love my completely weird self. 🤗

  • Emo_Enby_99

    291d

    My only long time friend is my ex fiance. And I have one friend who's AroAce

  • hiphop5554

    291d

    I have this problem so bad! The best thing I've found is to get out there even when it's scary! My past best friend and I met in a club that I started! Its best to find things that attract your interest because then, chances are, it'll be easier to strike up conversations! Good luck!

  • Kix

    291d

    Yes! All my “friends” are my boyfriends friends or acquaintances that I’ve never been able to keep or get close to. I feel like I’ve never had a real friend and that makes me sad. I don’t need a lot just 1 or 2 would be nice.

  • EternalEmber

    291d

    I have a super hard time maintaining friendships because I enjoy spending most of my time alone

  • Jay.100

    290d

    People come and go, that's why you shouldn't try to keep a so called friend.

  • Doglover25006

    290d

    Yes I’ve been in Florida almost 3 years and made one friend I’m so alone

  • Doglover25006

    290d

    I realized a few years ago that my “friends” were using me and I cut them off but now I’m alone. Not sure which is worse.

  • sun_flowerchild

    290d

    As soon as I don’t like one thing I’m ready to cut them off completely and feel like it was a total waste of time so yes….very much so. I also struggle with “favorite person” syndrome thanks to BPD so the black and white thinking kills a lot of my potential friendships.

  • Bel98

    290d

    Yup. After my bestfriend of 13 years cut me off because she found Jesus she said and that I was toxic because I refused to stop using cannabis for my medical issues. Even though I know I did nothing wrong the pain she caused me has stayed even though it’s been almost 4years. I have friends who occasionally tell me she still talks ill of me but that’s okay. But just sucks is I gave that person who truly didn’t care about me the ability to ruin the aspect of me that has the ability to socialize and trust others.

  • Respectful_Butterfly

    290d

    I have moved to Florida 7 years ago and yes I love it here but can’t find any true friends. They say they are your friend and then they back stab you and they pretend to be your friend to your face. I just want some friends to talk to and hang out with.

  • AlwaysAdored247

    290d

    ❤️ 👍 🙌 💕 👍 👍 👍 👍

  • kikimae

    290d

    ❤️❤️

  • Remkle

    285d

    Always

  • Jay.100

    285d

    If you need a friend DM me on Twitter @freerealtalk

  • comealittlecloser

    285d

    Yes I’m kind of asocial and very shy so I never really talk to anyone though it’s lonely

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