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Alex2drowsy

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I’m always lonely and want a nice girl that cares about me really cause I care about them and I never get the same back… I feel I sit in my basement alone listening to music I love all music and all kinds of people . I love horror movies and getting high and and just straight up cuddles would be the best . I miss having someone close always

    • B_Legion

      678d

      For some people they can’t deal with dependence, and you’re indicating that you want someone to support you, and support you often, or even all the time. That’s okay to ask for. But working to make sure that that dependence is going to be healthy, and working on changing your language to better indicate that that dependence is going to be healthy is going to do a lot for you. Plus sharing your passions, your favorite things about yourself, etc. makes you more appealing. It reinforces that the relationship isn’t one sided and is mutual and between equals, even if you’re going to be relying on them. More than that, “and I never get the same back” comes across as devaluing which is concerning. And if you experience both idealizing people and devaluing people you should follow up on that before you pursue a relationship. Fundamentally you should want to be a good partner as much as you want a good partner for yourself. I know it’s cliche, but working on yourself and having a good relationship with yourself makes you more appealing. Youur relationship with yourself should be one of your most important and foundational relationships. I would diversify your friend group and make supportive and interesting friends that want you to be happy and want to see things get better for you and are willing to help with that. A supportive group of loved ones will also make you more attractive and secure. It’s wrong to expect it, or to make friends under false pretenses, but it should also be said that there’s a solid chance that one of those friends might watch you grow and develop over time, find that attractive, and pursue you. So it’s possible just trying to be kind to yourself in general can end up organically finding a partner for you through the friends you make along the way.

    • mmute

      678d

      Sometimes working on youself and building an interesting background can attract women. Remember, people are drawn towards fun people so sitting around smoking and watching movies isn't something people want to do all the time

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