bum

94d

ive been struggling with a crush for a little while, and yes I'm working on it.
the person I'm interested in does not and will not ever be into me and I'm 100% okay with that, he's my best friend and I just want him to be happy. I need advice on how to get over him lol it's been rough, he's the sweetest person ever and he treats me best then anyone ive ever met, help me out of so many rough patches as I've also done for him in return. so, you can see my struggle lol.
it's not as strong as before, but it's still there, please any advice I'd appreciate:)

Anxiety (Including GAD)

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD)

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  • canadaisntreal

    94d

    relating heavily to this actually. i’d love some advice for the same issue!

  • Val420

    94d

    Tbh I feel like I ruin any relationship when I’m not feeling okay and I feel bad for doing it after because at the moment I didn’t realize till later and I’m still trying to work on it I just don’t know how exactly but I’m trying

  • Foxlover

    94d

    If you don’t tell him how you feel you won’t know if he feels the same, he just might. Otherwise after my ex and I broke up we started being friends, I wasn’t over him though. Eventually I knew I had to move on and I met my boyfriend we’ve been together for almost two years,

    • bum

      94d

      I did confess before, he is a straight guy with a girlfriend haha 🥲🥲

  • kinaa

    94d

    going through the same thing it’s the worst!!! can never get him out of my head. let me know if anything works for you hahah

    • bum

      91d

      honestly, although it's really hard confessing was something that seriously helped me with it, yes getting rejected sucks but it's a start to getting over that person! Lay it down very lightly and be as respectful as you can to them about it. Yes it is the pits but it's better to hear it come from them then overthinking about it yourself. If they're a true friend they'll stick by you no matter what :)

  • Songbird24

    94d

    Dang, related hard to this one - don’t have advice cause I lost the friendship recently, but just wanted to say I know how you feel 💜💜

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