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How do I get over my best friend?

bum

530d

ive been struggling with a crush for a little while, and yes I'm working on it. the person I'm interested in does not and will not ever be into me and I'm 100% okay with that, he's my best friend and I just want him to be happy. I need advice on how to get over him lol it's been rough, he's the sweetest person ever and he treats me best then anyone ive ever met, help me out of so many rough patches as I've also done for him in return. so, you can see my struggle lol. it's not as strong as before, but it's still there, please any advice I'd appreciate:)

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    • bum

      527d

      @kinaa honestly, although it's really hard confessing was something that seriously helped me with it, yes getting rejected sucks but it's a start to getting over that person! Lay it down very lightly and be as respectful as you can to them about it. Yes it is the pits but it's better to hear it come from them then overthinking about it yourself. If they're a true friend they'll stick by you no matter what :)

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    • Songbird24

      530d

      Dang, related hard to this one - don’t have advice cause I lost the friendship recently, but just wanted to say I know how you feel 💜💜

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    • kinaa

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      going through the same thing it’s the worst!!! can never get him out of my head. let me know if anything works for you hahah

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      • bum

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        @kinaa honestly, although it's really hard confessing was something that seriously helped me with it, yes getting rejected sucks but it's a start to getting over that person! Lay it down very lightly and be as respectful as you can to them about it. Yes it is the pits but it's better to hear it come from them then overthinking about it yourself. If they're a true friend they'll stick by you no matter what :)

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    • Foxlover

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      If you don’t tell him how you feel you won’t know if he feels the same, he just might. Otherwise after my ex and I broke up we started being friends, I wasn’t over him though. Eventually I knew I had to move on and I met my boyfriend we’ve been together for almost two years,

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      • bum

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        @Foxlover I did confess before, he is a straight guy with a girlfriend haha 🥲🥲

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    • Val420

      530d

      Tbh I feel like I ruin any relationship when I’m not feeling okay and I feel bad for doing it after because at the moment I didn’t realize till later and I’m still trying to work on it I just don’t know how exactly but I’m trying

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    • canadaisntreal

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      relating heavily to this actually. i’d love some advice for the same issue!

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