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How did you personally overcome your internalized ableism about your EDS (especially if you use mobility aids like a cane)? Ive been really struggling with accepting that im not well and im not just being lazy for wanting to move throughout my day without pain. It really sucks and i find myself feeling so humiliated when I walk funny in the store or wesr a brace, so how do yall overcome all that?

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    • MakMcK

      713d

      Me šŸ‘toošŸ‘. I donā€™t have much advice because I deal with this in a daily basis. I once had a person tell me that I should ā€œwait until Iā€™m older bc then Iā€™d know real painā€ when he saw my brace. I donā€™t know how to deal with it and it takes too much to explain it every time. I think the answer may come from within. Maybe once I have accepted my condition, I wonā€™t worry about others much

    • MakMcK

      713d

      Me šŸ‘toošŸ‘. I donā€™t have much advice because I deal with this in a daily basis. I once had a person tell me that I should ā€œwait until Iā€™m older bc then Iā€™d know real painā€ when he saw my brace. I donā€™t know how to deal with it and it takes too much to explain it every time. I think the answer may come from within. Maybe once I have accepted my condition, I wonā€™t worry about others much

    • Elastagurl

      717d

      Same! I offer all the grace in the world to everyone else yet to myself I get so down on me for sleeping more or not being productive every second of everyday. I guess if we have no advise to offer itā€™s at least helpful to know weā€™re not alone.

    • lavap

      717d

      i definitely have internalized ableism to myself. I always feel like iā€™m just being lazy and my condition isnā€™t real.

      • Student_girl

        717d

        @lavap I feel like that with eds, but especially with pots

    • madd94

      717d

      Thank you for asking this. Iā€™m in the same boat and would love to hear from others šŸ’›

    • Student_girl

      718d

      I feel the same way, donā€™t know how to overcome it

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