Struggling to Find the Perfect Outfit

Yes, I feel like I wear the same sort of things almost everyday because I don’t feel good in most other styles. It sucks because I want to feel good in my clothes but since I am overweight I don’t like showing too much skin.

omg yes!! I cant find an outfit that's right and then I just break down and cry 😭

Oh my gosh yes! Sometimes it gets so bad I'll brake down on a pile of clothes and just cry it out until I come to the conclusion everything will look terrible on me and there's nothing I can do about it. Submission to the idea nothing will feel right or make me look pretty isn't a great strategy for my mental health but it helps get me out the door or at least on to hair and makeup. I find picking out clothes when you feel good is helpful so on bad days you can at least tell your self that this looks good even though it might not feel good when you're having a bad day.

* harmonal

For me it's more of recent years harmony changes/unbalances that's caused great weight gain I'm not used to that makes a lot of clothes uncomfortable and not feeling very appealing, but I try to dress with makeup and accessories that dresses it up more for me. And despite all that I probably love myself more than I ever have for the right genuine reasons