Squishlover

146d

I don't have anyone to talk to about anything. When I try to talk to my boyfriend he says I never have anything positive to say or something is always wrong with me. I literally tell him positive things all the time but he focuses on all the negative things I say because ya I do have problems. I'm tired and I need help. He makes it seem like I shouldn't feel the way I do or like he doesn't believe me. I now feel like I can't talk to him at all. he says he wants people to add to his life and everyone just takes away or has issues that he has to fix. I feel like yes he should help me and he really doesn't like physically he doesn't help me at all. all he does is listen so I don't understand why it's so hard for him to try and lift me up. when that's exactly what he wants. We've been dating 4 years and I don't want to break up but.... I just think we think about life differently and it's an issue. Like I want him to take care of me to a point. Like help me take out trash clean my car fix light bulbs stuff like that. I feel really depressed and like life has nothing for me. I'm over it

Lethargy

Anxiety (Including GAD)

Depression

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  • Jan_Marie

    146d

    I’m in a similar boat only my parents say that to me. I try to be positive but it’s not always that easy

    • Squishlover

      146d

      I've been told my whole life I'm so negative. But I really just say what I'm thinking. I'm not trying to be negative. Maybe I just need someone to tell me I'm doing good I dunno

      • Inezz

        146d

        Hun I’ve been battling depression anxiety bi polar since I was 14 and I’m 35 now and a person who’s not familiar with these conditions they just don’t get are brains just a lil wired differently it can be extremely difficult for someone to climb out of that hole alone for me dealing with depression means u care to little about things and having anxiety is u care to much about things then when you have both it’s fricken hell it’s a constant battle in my head so what I’m getting at is surround yourself with people who Know and understand what your going through if your boyfriend isn’t supportive then he’s got to go because this is for life hun and mental conditions that we have don’t go away we learn to manage them and we have great days then we have really bad days and if he can’t even show the least bit of empathy or concern or anything how’s how’s he going to react the day you really need him? We are all here for you don’t forget that💕

  • Bonjo

    146d

    you can talk to me anytime you need . it's hard when you feel you have nobody. But I can be your person to talk to we all need that

  • Rainage

    146d

    ^seconded. Always here to talk if you need it about anything and everything. I went through some relationship issues that really screwed me up not too long ago, so I know what it’s like to feel alone even when you have someone.

  • Bonjo

    146d

    I can listen if you need to talk I was in a 12 year bad relationship

  • CookieMomster

    146d

    I feel the same in my relationship. I dont have the energy to fight for it any more. He wont accept his part in tearing me down either. Idk what to do.

    • Bonjo

      146d

      take some me time and just think about what is good. Journaling helps me to release stress. The most important just focus on you and the positive things. you can't control anyone but yourself. I am here if you want to pm me to talk

  • Heaven197987

    146d

    Get out you don't need someone that brings you down and won't lift you. Doesn't make for a healthy relationship

  • ChristineD

    146d

    I totally understand.

  • debra67

    146d

    First and most important: leave that no good boyfriend of yours. Bringing you down and not helping you IS NOT what a man should do or how to act. Second: have you tried counseling? It works wonders for people who need someone to talk to. Third: we all have problems, but try to remember the good in life and I know that can be hard. I'm praying 🙏 for you and I'm here too if you ever need a friend to talk too. 🤗

  • Drewsdad08

    145d

    I kinda know what you’re feeling. I’m over stressed, have anxiety and depression as well as ADHD. I see a therapist from time to time and take 2 types and of medication. My wife doesn’t seek help for her anxiety issues. We never have productive conversations. I have trust issues because she has so many secrets and is always on her phone texting and talking and never tells me who’s she’s chatting with. I have a teenage son with autism that I only see on weekends. He and my wife don’t get along. I have a fantastic job that I love and most of the time that’s the highlight of my week. I’m at a loss overall

  • Denotchka

    145d

    🙏Definitely praying for you, your family and my family.

  • coder87

    145d

    Everybody needs good people to talk to about difficult things without judgement. I'm happy to talk if you want to message me

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