Struggling with Self Harm: Need Advice

Not only that get rid of any thing that makes you want to self harm like a pocket knife. Give it to someone who can hold onto it for you or put it in a drawer in a different room than your room. Out of sight out of mind.

Make a promise to someone you really care about. Not to not do it because that's an unfair promise. But I've found promising to try not to, almost everytime I think about it and get close I'm like "ugh I promised I'd try though" and almost always stop