only accept changes behavior ! And yes express that it hurt you. You don’t deserve someone who makes you question your worth. There will be someone who doesn’t say those things to you. As someone who was in 2 very emotionally abusive relationships- and now married to a great man who would never say those things to me… And if he feels that way maybe he should examine why that is. Did he feel he had to constantly have sex with his ex bc if not the ex would use it against him or cheat ? Is it because he just isn’t in the mood lately bc of health issues? Low testosterone? Or is he just trying to make you feel less worthy and break you down.