Sav7242

92d

So I been with this guy for a bit now and he said something that kinda rubbed me the wrong way. He said he had more sex with his ex and he was “down to bone her” all the time. But with me his sex drive has been very low. I always initiate and it’s getting old. We hav sex at least once when we see eachother but I have a higher drive. Any advice on this situation please??

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

Low Mood

Anxiety (Including GAD)

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  • ReadieFreddie

    92d

    Find someone who doesn’t say things like that to you ! 💕

    • Sav7242

      92d

      he apologized for it but I know it was the truth

      • ReadieFreddie

        92d

        only accept changes behavior ! And yes express that it hurt you. You don’t deserve someone who makes you question your worth. There will be someone who doesn’t say those things to you. As someone who was in 2 very emotionally abusive relationships- and now married to a great man who would never say those things to me… And if he feels that way maybe he should examine why that is. Did he feel he had to constantly have sex with his ex bc if not the ex would use it against him or cheat ? Is it because he just isn’t in the mood lately bc of health issues? Low testosterone? Or is he just trying to make you feel less worthy and break you down.

  • darkwitch

    92d

    very, very bad vibes. i would express that this really ruined your vibe with everything and that it really, really hurt you. i would also communicate that you want him to want you more. if he can't, goodbye, you know?

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