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beautifulDisasterxo

420d

I have gotten myself in a situation that I am not proud of ...and the guit is eating me alive .... my relationship is pretty much non existent at this point ... it's feels like we are roommates at this point ...and I have took interest in someone else ... someone that makes me feel a way I have NEVER felt before .... I know what I'm doing is absolutely wrong ! and I can't continue to do it ...I just don't know what to do or how to go about this ...the guilt and stress of this situation is killing me I'm definitely self sabotaging myself at this point. I don't want anyone to get hurt I don't enjoy hurting people !!!! I'm not comfortable in my own home anymore , there's nothing left between me and my boyfriend when we kiss, hug ECT. there's nothing.... and I would like to just clarify this has been an on going thing for MONTHS it's not like this other guy came along and pulled me away. any options or thoughts that aren't rude ...would be greatly appreciated please ! 😭 I am completely losing myself over this situation and beyond stressed and I know its my own fault ! I genuinely don't want anyone to get hurt ! and it's more then just him there's his kids involved too ! I don't want to hurt them. 🥺 and every time I try to talk to someone else about the situation they always say " your going to break those kids hearts , what about the kids ?" what about me ?!?! and my happiness?!?! what about what's best for me ?!?! uhhhhh! again any thoughts , advice , opinions that aren't rude would be greatly appreciated!!!! thank you all in advance!

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    • beautifulDisasterxo

      394d

      @Hamster99 it's not that I'm not happy I'm just ....I don't know ..he's trying I know he is .... He works night 7pm to 7am sunday-thursday on his days off we have his kids ... But these past few weeks he's really been trying. And I have as well ! Just to be better and open up and be able to tell myself " okay I need a minute this is to much I just need to breath and walk away "

    • lilcrustymusty

      419d

      Just be honest

    • Fwd1982

      419d

      Just tell ur boyfriend that u dont want to be with him anymore and end it there

    • Hamster99

      419d

      As a kid who grew up in a home with my mom hating my (step) dad.... if you guys are not happy together, end it. In the long term it will be better for everyone, even if it hurts like hell rn.

      • beautifulDisasterxo

        394d

        @Hamster99 it's not that I'm not happy I'm just ....I don't know ..he's trying I know he is .... He works night 7pm to 7am sunday-thursday on his days off we have his kids ... But these past few weeks he's really been trying. And I have as well ! Just to be better and open up and be able to tell myself " okay I need a minute this is to much I just need to breath and walk away "

    • Gwen71

      419d

      I was there too. In a relationship that just fell apart and drifted away. We didn't have any children but I moved 10 hours from my home to be with him and after I moved back home it hurt so bad. I hope you feel better.

      • beautifulDisasterxo

        394d

        @Gwen71 im so sorry you went through that ❤️ thank you ❤️❤️

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