Dating One of My Alters: Is It Possible?

yeah. we get it. weve told our partner (who also turned out to be a system lol) and theyre fantastic. they use our names and we use theirs and think of all of us and we think of them. but a couple of our friends know and its like. why did we even try yknow. they dont use our names even after we tell them. they dont view us as different. one gets pissed when we dont know things were “supposed” to know and its like dog why did we tell you if youre just going to act like were the same person??