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Heartbroken after being told I'm just a mental health safe place

Usagi_Tsukino

569d

I just got broken up with.. and here’s what I was told. It’s heartbreaking cause I tried so hard to make communication a priority and wanted to be better than all my previous relationships and now look where it got me. Seems like talking and being there for someone is just so worthless sometimes. “I feel like we connect and I can come to you with any issue and talk to someone who understands feelings, but that’s what attracts me to you. Nothing else really, and I’m wondering if I’m using you as a mental health safe place instead of truly going to get some help.”

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    • AnimalBoy

      569d

      On the bright side you succeeded in your goal and you can use that in future relationships? It's not your fault, or even their fault, that they weren't attracted to you and a lack of attraction doesn't actually mean anything bad about you, some people wont be but other people will be. It sucks to be broken up with but im glad they figured out they needed help and to stop using you, I just hope they figured it out before they hurt you too much.

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    • AnimalBoy

      569d

      On the bright side you succeeded in your goal and you can use that in future relationships? It's not your fault, or even their fault, that they weren't attracted to you and a lack of attraction doesn't actually mean anything bad about you, some people wont be but other people will be. It sucks to be broken up with but im glad they figured out they needed help and to stop using you, I just hope they figured it out before they hurt you too much.

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      • Usagi_Tsukino

        569d

        @AnimalBoy it’s not their fault.. I’ve always said I wanted them to be happy.. I just wish it came a little sooner. I honestly seen it coming but thought I might just be overthinking it. It’s probably better I be alone anyways for now. It doesn’t mean something’s wrong with me but it’s hard not to feel that way. I’ve been dealing with trying to accept myself for as long as I can remember. I’ve come a decent way but this just kinda stung a little. But I’ll live right? 😔

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    • Aii_Aya

      569d

      So sorry to hear that if you need someone to talk to I’m here.

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