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I’m so unhappy, getting angry my wife seems not to have any consideration for me, or my feelings. She is just so nasty to me. But I should not be surprised it’s nothing new.She gets worse when she’s around other people and family. She has not been a wife to me for over 30 years. I get a kiss twice a year my birthday and new year other times they’re is nothing . I keep telling myself that it’s going to change, I just know it’s not. This situation keeps me in constant pain of depression, and very sad much of the time. I’m in need of some sort of help, someone to talk to.hold me I am in desperate need.
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@Chub Maybe turn to friends that you both have to talk it out? Other family members that know you both well? You have to get her to try it out or you're just going to end up being separated. Take a vacation together somewhere? This is tricky because every situation is different. What made you love her and want to marry her back then and what changed?
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I feel like you need professional help from a couple therapist to resolve this, or turns to your parents and her parents to try to mend these problems. You can't keep going like this it's not healthy. I'm sure you can work it out if you do these things!
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@AnimeOverwatchGamer Thanks Anime, both are parents are dead, she will not go to a therapist, try to talk to her. She said that she doesn’t know why, but doesn’t even care enough to try. I should’ve left her years back but I love her so much, Thanks for your support G-f Bless you and your family.🧌
Have you sat with her and talked to her about this? If you haven't, you should try. Communication is very important in relationships!
Dang, that really sucks! My husband and I went through a rough patch for about a year or so where he just didn't seem to be physically attracted to me. I had to initiate everything and was often turned down. He initially told me me it was because I nagged him too much about stuff in general. I worked really hard on myself to become kinder and more considerate of his feelings. He eventually agreed that I had been doing better and even tried Viagra. Fun fact: Viagra doesn't help much if the mind isn't interested. Things gradually got better, but I'm not sure what did it. But back to you, 30 years is a long time to deal with this. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this.
@Wisteria Thanks for your reply, glad that your situation got resolved,
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