Dealing with Anxiety in Relationships

Yeah I feel the same. I just assume it is because of many past relationships or when I was a terrible person and used to cheat on people. But now that I don’t I just feel anxious about the relationship a lot and feel like they might do terrible things I used to do. Talking to my partner about the things that make me anxious or telling them that I’m feeling anxious about this usually makes me feel a little bit better for a while.

Yes I can relate. Just know it isn’t as intense forever. Once you meet someone and get to know them long enough, the intensity of that feeling will decrease. And if you really get to know someone for years it becomes very very small. Once you get to connect with someone who you can pretty much tell is trustworthy and kind, I recommend you share these feelings with them when they come up