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Sktchy

410d

Why am I so replaceable? Throughout my whole life all my friendships and relationships people always leave me. Recently I have been getting close with this guy (friendship only) and we used to hang everyday and watch shows and video games . Now I’m being ghosted . He ignores me now for some girl he just met . I don’t get it

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    • CrazyMeerkat

      409d

      Very relatable to me too. They have a problem, not you. You are a loyal friend.

    • Denotchka

      408d

      People arelike that. Make sure you're not being really negative around him. Always do self evaluation. It helps you improve a lot of things.

    • Anon9827

      409d

      You're not replaceable no one is replaceable

    • CrazyMeerkat

      409d

      Very relatable to me too. They have a problem, not you. You are a loyal friend.

    • zellarius

      409d

      you have to just start reciprocating how people treat you. make them replaceable in your life. don't get attached to them. eventually you have to realize you're not meant to have any long term or truly meaningful relationships. that's just our lot in life.

    • Waterlemon

      410d

      most people who you meet in life will come and go, and sometimes you’ll meet a friend that will be a life long friend. both are okay and normal! I know it’s no fun feeling like everybody just gets tired of you and then leaves, and I can totally relate to feeling that way. just remember that everybody in life is always growing and changing and meeting new people and that some friendships aren’t meant to last a life time. you are special and lovable and the amount of friends you have at this exact moment doesn’t define you. guys especially are just weird sometimes and don’t really know what they want (same goes for girls lol). I know it’s easier said than done but try not to take it personally. you got this :)

    • MidlightTheNightFury

      410d

      Ik how you feel I get it really I do to go on with life if you have 1 friend you know is true that’s all you need or just be a loner this is random not full I learned to only trust myself but test the people that come in if there true

    • CarisNotCharis

      410d

      I don't think people are consciously trying to replace you, although I have felt like that throughout my life. I've come to realise that sometimes you only have friends for a period or season of your life, and that's ok. Whilst it's incredibly painful, it comes to a point where you have to let them go. It can be harmful holding onto relationships that have gone past their 'expiration date', especially if they were always one-sided 💕

    • YGKIMO

      410d

      The way people feel they can dispose of you with no respect enrages me

    • PurplePenguinsPolka

      410d

      I feel the same. I don't feel like anyone ever thinks I'm as special to them as they are to me. I'm also here if you wanna chat anytime

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People's actions and decisions in relationships can be influenced by various factors, such as communication issues, personal growth, or changes in priorities. It's important to remember that being ghosted or experiencing changes in friendships is not necessarily a reflection of your worth or value as a person. Sometimes people drift apart due to their own reasons, and it may not be about you being replaceable.

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