My abusive ex husband has been harassing me and my family lately with aggressive messages. We’re dealing with the legal stuff through lawyers but honestly I just don’t know how to handle this whole thing. I just am always scared he’s going to show up at my house. I can’t even function today after the messages he sent. I feel a little dead inside right now. I guess I just don’t know how to deal with this outside of my therapy and medications. I’m just so overwhelmed by this whole thing.

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

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  • Abbe


    Hi CeCe! I grew up as the child in this situation. I’m so sorry this has happened to you. Personally for piece of mind for me, I got a SimpliSafe security system. It has more camera range than ring. It’s only like $6 a month for video footage which you can document and use in court if he were to show up at your house. I know how hard this can be. But if you can, document like literally everything. That is the best thing you can do is have evidence. I’m unsure if your divorce is finalized or not. Have your family members have documents as well. With even evidence this is considered harassment which he can face jail time for especially if your family ops for a restraining order. Feel free to reach out anytime

    • Cece7


      I will look into that, thank you!! We’ve definitely been documenting it all. Even before the divorce. I’m actually remarried now we got divorced a few years ago but he’s still remained just as terrible. We’re discussing restraining orders now but I’ve had trouble getting myself there mentally. I’ll definitely message you if that is okay!

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