Feeling like I don't deserve my girlfriend

I honestly get what your saying and can relate to you completely feel free to message me x

I think a lot of neurodivergent people/people with emotional history/trauma feel this way at some point with their partners, especially in healthy relationships. It can feel like you're not enough. As long as you're communicating and seeking help (from loved ones AND professionals when needed/possible) then I think you shouldn't be afraid of not being worthy of her love ❤️ I bet if she was raised by an extremely toxic narcissist then she probably feels the same sometimes. Have you tried talking to her about this? My partner and I have been together almost 9 yrs, both with trauma and struggles with our own mental health/conditions but talking things through has always helped 💕 even if it feels scary, you can do it

honestly I feel this way with my boyfriend too. I feel like I'm too much to cope with and shouldn't be making him deal with my bad mental health

First of all- you are not a burden. I'm in a relationship with someone who has mental health struggles, and I was raised by a toxic narcissist. Sometimes my partner needs a lot more from me and sometimes I need more from them. The important thing is that you check in with your girlfriend and and see if she is okay. If she has no problems helping you and isn't burnt out then I think there isn't an issue. In 2019 my partner needed a lot from me, and it was hard, but I love him and when I need him (now) he's there for me. It's how a relationship is balanced. I hope this helped. Wanted to share a story to show It's not always seen like the other person is 'baggage.' You're more than that.