Struggling with Gender Identity

tl;dr: gender is a complicated subject. Based on your description, you could be genderfluid, pangender, or a similar multi or non-static gender identity, but it's up to you to see what fits. Unfortunately, I can't just give you some little quiz that'll tell you what you are. However, I can give you some advice based on personal experience and what I've seen in other people in the community. From what you've said, you seem to be experiencing some gender fluidity rather than just having one stagnant gender identity. I identify as genderflux, which means that my gender fluctuates in intensity (meaning some days i feel oriented towards a specific gender identity (male in my case) and others I only partially align with it or feel completely agender), and I experience similar feelings due to this even if I don't experience androgyny or femininity in my gender identity. The best advice I think I can give is to experiment with your gender expression and identity until you find something that feels right. Or, you may simply decide you don't have a specific label that you identify with, and that's totally fine as well! Anyway, I wish you the best of luck on your journey in self-discovery.

From your description, you might be pangender I would recommend doing research into it