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Cricket2099

672d

does anyone else feel unlovable,and if so how do you deal with it? my whole life people have been content to be around me but nobody likes to stay. how can I figure out what's wrong with me?

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    • Cricket2099

      667d

      @FelixTE that's what throws me off,I've been in the military for a year and a half and it hasn't helped. I've had a few other jobs and it seems every environment I go is the same

    • NervousDepresso

      671d

      Idk, I have a couple friends from high school that I know aren't going anywhere. My closest friend(so close, we just refer to eachother as brothers. We call eachother's moms Mom), I met him when we were both 5 or 6, and we were brothers by the time we were 13. My best friend, Kate, I just met her less than a year ago. I've been in a bad place and tried pushing her away on more than a few occasions, and she's still here for me. It doesn't matter when you meet a friend. If they're a real friend, they'll stick with you for life.

      • Mop

        671d

        @NervousDepresso yep, it's the friends I met in high school that are still around for me. I can't imagine making any friends in a work environment. The perfect match for you can be found anywhere at any time.

    • FelixTE

      671d

      Friends you meet when you're a teen will never stay no matter what. When you start in a job with people closer to your age is when you really start making real friends. We all feel unloved. Remember that you deserve love and happiness.

      • Cricket2099

        667d

        @FelixTE that's what throws me off,I've been in the military for a year and a half and it hasn't helped. I've had a few other jobs and it seems every environment I go is the same

    • Mop

      672d

      Nothing is wrong with you. I remember when I felt like this. I was convinced nobody was going to stick around forever, and that it was my fault somehow. It was a wait, but I've found a lot of people since then who will always be with me. Keep pushing forward, be your genuine self, and you'll find those perfect people.

      • Cricket2099

        672d

        @Mop thanks,that's really motivating. I guess I will keep holding out

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