Struggling with Gender Dysphoria and Life Changes

Hey alikes, its been a while since I’ve posted on here. A lot has happened since my last post. I’ve pretty much confirmed I have gender dysphoria but haven’t taken steps to transition yet(working on it. Still closeted.) I got denied promotion and full time at my workplace so I can’t afford to stay living where I’m at. I have pets and apartments that allow them are few and far between. Ones that I do find are all the same expense as my current one which I can’t afford anymore. I’m having to move back in with my wife’s mom due to living expenses(she moved all the way across the US from me so gonna have a big move coming up.) I’m not guaranteed transferring in my job so I might have to find another job after I move…just too much going on at once. I’m overwhelmed. I’m trying to just do one thing at a time but my executive dysfunction is getting I’m my way. Any suggestions are welcome.