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Livingasazebra

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Is it normal to have different levels of attraction to men and women. I’m much more likely to squeal and get sweaty and want to f***k a man. A woman I’ll think damn she’s not but I don’t feel the urge to do s£x I’ll just want to be her gf

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    • AnimalBoy

      401d

      It sounds like you could fit on the split attraction model, it's most common with aspec people but plenty of people feel Romantic and sexual attraction to different genders. Not every bi person feels the same level of attraction to the genders they are attracted to, of course in fact many have a preference, but wanting to date someone and wanting to sleep with someone typically falls under different attraction types not different levels of attraction.

    • AnimalBoy

      401d

      It sounds like you could fit on the split attraction model, it's most common with aspec people but plenty of people feel Romantic and sexual attraction to different genders. Not every bi person feels the same level of attraction to the genders they are attracted to, of course in fact many have a preference, but wanting to date someone and wanting to sleep with someone typically falls under different attraction types not different levels of attraction.

    • Atheris

      402d

      Of course! No one is equally attracted to everyone. In general men tend to be more of binary, either gay or straight, while women tend to be more fluid. That said it's still very gray all around. Personally, I identify as bisexual, but aromantic. And maybe like 60:40 toward women more than men. However, I've been in a committed relationship with my man for 8 years. People are complicated.

    • Jujubeezy

      403d

      Absolutely Normal! Sexuality and attraction is a spectrum that constantly changes as you explore what you like and don't like. I like men, women, and nonbinary folk but I have a preference for which I am attracted to more. Hope that helps 🤗💕

    • moonlit_shiv

      403d

      Absolutely!!😃

    • Emmy_Emerald

      403d

      Totally normal I get that but it's backwards as in it'll be the girl I have the most attraction to.

      • Livingasazebra

        403d

        @Emmy_Emerald ty that’s good to know 💗

        • Emmy_Emerald

          403d

          @Livingasazebra Its no problem. Your welcome. 💕

    • Natz

      403d

      It’s really common for people on the autistic spectrum to be part of the LGBTQ community.

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