Awhile ago my moms fiancé slapped my but and said “I bet your boyfriend wouldn’t like that” he’s also made comments that I need a boob job. For awhile I barricaded my door because I had an Intense fear he would touch me in my sleep. He never did but that whole situation fucked me up. I’m 22 and homebound agoraphobic so leaving the house is majorly hard. Help
Does your mom know she’s marrying a pos? Cause if she doesn’t know about what he did I would tell her. That is NOT okay. What an awful situation to be in, I’m so sorry. You shouldn’t have to put up with being disrespected, sexualized and assaulted like that, especially by someone about to marry your mother and probably LIVE with you. I know having anxiety on top of this makes it even more uncomfortable but you’ve got to advocate for yourself, either by standing up to this man or calling in reinforcements. You deserve to feel safe in your own home
I told my mom and she got mad at me and offended. They’ve been engaged for years. She drinks and drives with me in the car since I was a kid and smokes cigarettes in the house. I don’t really think she has my well being in interest . My only option is moving out.
please move out!! It’s changed SO MUCH about my life. It’s easily one of the best decisions I ever made!
It’s completely understandable that it might be hard though, considering it’s hard to leave the house you’re already in, but overtime, I hope you grow to make little steps towards leaving!!
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Awhile ago my moms fiancé slapped my but and said “I bet your boyfriend wouldn’t like that” he’s also made comments that I need a boob job. For awhile I barricaded my door because I had an Intense fear he would touch me in my sleep. He never did but that whole situation fucked me up. I’m 22 and homebound agoraphobic so leaving the house is majorly hard. Help
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