we just had a new alter jump to the front and immediately go into a panic attack because this body isn’t how she really looks, so we had her make wish lists on a couple sites of stuff she likes, and her style is super cool but it’s totally the opposite of our usual look and we don’t really know what to do. she’s super nice and we really want her to fee comfortable, but there’s not really a way to do that without totally switching up our whole look, and we’re pretty covert and definitely would like to stay that way for safety reasons. she’s reasonably pretty upset so we’re just looking for advice on how we can maybe work this out so no one feels uncomfortable