See Alike in...

Alike App

Browser

My Best Friend Doesn't Care About Me

queendebs

539d

my own best friend doesn't care about me at all. i'll tell her i'm really depressed to the point of self harm/worse and she'll ignore my messages and ignore me. it's reallllly screwing me up and idk what to do about it :/

0

4

4

Anxiety (Including GAD)

Depression

View all
Top reply
    • SunInAugust

      539d

      Sometimes people don't know how to respond to that level of heavy and that isn't a reflection of the moral value of that person its just they have a limited capacity as a human and that's okay I try and check in with my friends to see if they have the emotional bandwidth to handle my big feelings before I disclose really heavy things And often they don't. And that's okay and very human

      6

      Reply
      Chat
    • SunInAugust

      539d

      Sometimes people don't know how to respond to that level of heavy and that isn't a reflection of the moral value of that person its just they have a limited capacity as a human and that's okay I try and check in with my friends to see if they have the emotional bandwidth to handle my big feelings before I disclose really heavy things And often they don't. And that's okay and very human

      6

      Reply
    • AlexaRoberts

      539d

      From my experience that isn't a friend that you should have in your life. Cut her out and find friends that will help you and take then time to listen to you and understand what your going through. Friendship isn't one sided its both people working together to build each other up not one sided. Cut her off like a bad habit don't let her drag you down

      1

      Reply
      • queendebs

        539d

        @AlexaRoberts i know that i need to. she's just my only friend that i can actually see and im trying to fix this with her. i already feel super alone i don't wanna just lose one of the only people i have. idk if that makes sense :///

        0

        Reply
        • AlexaRoberts

          539d

          @queendebs with that information then talk to her let her know how you feel she won't know unless you tell her but unfortunately sometimes people don't care I hope that she does care when you tell her what's wrong and how you feel communication is key in any relationship

          0

          Reply

☝ This content is generated by our users and it is not a substitute for professional medical advice. Please consult with your physician before making any medical decision

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.

Want to chat or share? Download the Alike app now and get complete access to Alike.health's unique features.

Alike health

Instantly get answers to medical questions with our AI, built from the collective wisdom of our community facing similar experiences

Write your question here...

Get answer
Thank you! Your submission has been received!

Related Questions

Find people who are
experiencing a similar
medical reality

join the community
100% Free
100%
Free
Alike is a transformative platform that goes beyond just bringing together patients; it meticulously connects individuals based on multiple critical factors, such as age, gender, comorbidities, medications, diet, and more, fostering a community of knowledge, support and empathy.
© 2020-2023 Alike, Inc
About AlikeWisdomFAQEditorial TeamAll ConditionsAll PostsAll Communities
Your PrivacyStoriesCommunity GuidelinesTerms of UsePrivacy PolicyBlogContact Us

Download Alike for the full experience

JOIN

View All

Bupropion

night sweats

paranoid

Valium

sertraline

palpitations

Anxiety (Including GAD)

Depression

palpitations

Depression

Valium

Bupropion