Flexible Attendance in College: How Often Do You Use It?

I did but I abused it to an extent I was so burnt out. It started with me using it only when I needed it, then once a week, to twice a week then I just stopped attending classes

I do, in fact I'm currently using it today because I'm flaring too much to even leave my dorm room. Usually I only end up using it a couple times a semester and only when absolutely necessary (like to prevent a flare or recover from one) but honestly it depends on the person how much you need it. As long as you communicate with your professors and the disability office at your school I don't think it matters how often you use it if you still show some kind of effort to complete class work. Talk to professors about alternative assignments if needed, most of them will be happy to help you. See if you can have lectures recorded or if you can join class virtually to still recieve material. I know lots of schools offer a note taking accomodation as well where someone will take notes for you so you can just listen or allow you to record lectures to listen to later