Disappointing Medical Visit in Large City

I feel this everytime I go 2 any appts. I do so much research, since they can't ever figure anything out themselves. Basically I have 2 tell them what I want them 2 do or test me for. I send myself IMs 2 show them what I find at later date. Not 1 Dr has put together my symptoms and helped. It's been 10+ years I been suffering. If I gotta do their job so b it just do SOMETHING!! I Received the hypermobile bladder diagnosis and not 1 has said " oh let's make sure she doesn't have EDS" hmmm????? I fit all the criteria. They know about my joints and fatigue and lumbar stenosis. I'm super small and flexible, Well until u throw in the DDD AND ARTHRITIS AND SWELLING. They generally don't care, probably think I'm a hypochondriac, but I'm tired of suffering, just wanna rule things out so I may get closer 2 the right answer. Isn't that what Drs are supposed 2 do?