Tink3rbelle

99d

I know it's not the answer but I want to run away. I couldn't go to work because of being upset. My husband I love but he refuses to work in a career that will help our worries go away. It's because he doesn't want to be on call. I'm lost. I love him but I just can't. And I can't tell anyone this because they'll say it's my fault. I don't understand.

Anxiety (Including GAD)

Depression

Bipolar Disorder

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  • Cameron1121

    99d

    It’s not your fault

    • Tink3rbelle

      99d

      just to hear this once is nice. Friends and mainly my family say it's my fault.

      • K.C

        99d

        sometimes family is worse for your mental health than anything. They will get under your skin and sleep peacefully at night. It’s hard to walk away from friends and family that tell you stuff like that but I hope one day you can see that it’s not your fault at all even when you get to that point of being done. I have family that do the same but I’m slowly learning what they say doesn’t matter. It hurts me more than it does them and so now I choose happiness regardless of what they think ❤️ again it’s hard but very worth it.

  • scottrj

    99d

    I don't think it is your fault. It may be a tricky part with your husband. Open communication is key to seeing where you can find common ground.

    • Tink3rbelle

      99d

      I talked to my husband after picking him up. He surprised me and is looking for a better job.

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