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Redvelninja

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This girl at my day program I don't like too much because of how she acts and behaves around my bf. I love my bf to death and I trust him. I have voiced my opinion and feelings about her and him being "aquantences". Long story short, me and him are good now but sometimes I wonder that if he did not even mention her to me, what else is he not telling me? Am I right for being suspicipus and upset?

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    • Redvelninja

      547d

      And the weird thing is that he doesn't have her phone number, isn't on social media, he doesn't hang out with her but he apparently said aquantence without knowing the actual definition and the worse thing about it was that I happened to stand right across from them two and he was standing next to her while she did that and said nothing to her just let it happen like honey, I was right there! I know what I saw plus, when I asked him why he didn't say anything to her I got no answer at first and when I told him how I felt when that happened, no answer at first like really? Then he told me a bit later that he just didn't know how to reciporcate that I was like how?? That makes no sense

    • Redvelninja

      547d

      And the weird thing is that he doesn't have her phone number, isn't on social media, he doesn't hang out with her but he apparently said aquantence without knowing the actual definition and the worse thing about it was that I happened to stand right across from them two and he was standing next to her while she did that and said nothing to her just let it happen like honey, I was right there! I know what I saw plus, when I asked him why he didn't say anything to her I got no answer at first and when I told him how I felt when that happened, no answer at first like really? Then he told me a bit later that he just didn't know how to reciporcate that I was like how?? That makes no sense

    • Redvelninja

      547d

      And it was in front of me when she did that

    • Entropyluna

      547d

      Honestly, it sounds like your boyfriend is doing nothing wrong. You're upset with how somebody else acted, you told him, and now everything is good. The thing is, he's not obligated to tell you how other people act. If you trust him, then actually trust him. If you trusted him, you wouldn't be wondering what else he's not telling you. You would be confident that he's telling you everything you need to know. If you have trust issues that are that severe, that's something you should work on instead of subjecting your boyfriend to it. Because honestly, that kind of behavior is very controlling and abusive. I'm not saying you're a bad person, but you are responsible for your own issues. Your boyfriend is not responsible for your problems

      • Redvelninja

        547d

        @Entropyluna the thing is that he would tell me about everybody but about this one person I just thought that that was weird and thought that he was hiding her from me simply because he paid more attention to her than to me. She looked at me weird and grinned at me weirdly. Then she ended up one day flirting with my bf and my bf didn't say anything to her. I confronted him about it and asked him why he didn't say anything to her about it he just asked me what he was supposed to say to her because apparently he didn't know that she even liked him. I got upset because I thought that it was pretty obvious that she liked him. Like ugh really?? Like boy how did you not know? But he claimed that he did not favor her over me, claimed that he did not want to end the relationship, claimed that she was just an aquantence but even aquatences know better than that! Like wtf??

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