Struggling with Identifying as Having BPD

what i did when i suspected i had it was i looked up the diagnosis criteria for it, i don’t remember how many out of the criteria you are supposed to have but it usually says, if you relate to that certain amount and suspect you have it i would talk to someone about it, could be a parent, doctor or therapist and see about getting a diagnosis to get help with it, bpd is awful without management, hope this helps!