WildFlowerGirl

186d

Hello, does everybody else feel like it’s really hard to make friends? For some reason, it’s been really hard for me to make new friends at the University that I’m going to. Sometimes I feel judged by others and feel like nobody is interested in getting to know me as a person.

Social Anxiety

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  • Masterpieces

    186d

    Hey wild flower, looks like we’re a lot similar. It gets like that sometimes, the feeling of know one that understands you is not real. I’m sure a lot of people want to get to know you. It takes time for people to become friendly sometimes, but you’ll find good people it is a university. I would love to be friends with you 😊

    • Masterpieces

      186d

      Maybe we can help each other out

      • WildFlowerGirl

        185d

        yes, we can be friends :)

  • differentnotless

    186d

    Yes, I am the same way and have always struggled in that area. I am an introvert that wants to be an extrovert. What I believe is the best way to make friends in college is find a club you're interested in and just show up there regularly. Are you in any clubs or extracurricular activities?

    • WildFlowerGirl

      185d

      No, I’m not involved in any clubs because I was really busy with homework and also work so I barely had time for myself.

  • Alque

    186d

    Its hard. I wanna make friends but dont know how.

    • WildFlowerGirl

      185d

      that’s exactly how I feel .

      • Alque

        184d

        its like i try and get ignored. I just feel out of place.

  • LillianRose

    182d

    I know how that feeling is. I have a best friend but i feel like she isn't even real to me. I just cant push myself to make new friends because I am so worried that people won't be there for me.

  • Vyowleta

    182d

    It really is hard to make friends in University. Kind of always feel like the first two weeks, people are open to being friends but after that they close off immediately. The only real friends I really have are the people I live with amongst my suite. ;-;

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