My Relationship is Failing - What Should I Do?

I went through the same thing. At this point if you've expressed how you feel and nothing is changing, it's time to leave unfortunately. It'll suck and you'll hurt for quite some time I won't lie but it's worth every moment to have your peace back.

Well first question have you brought it up to him you want to go out somewhere just you and him? Also intimacy if he cares about you your sex drive means nothing to him

A lot of people will probably give you a lot of comments and stories. If someone knows about this it’s me. Me and my now ex were together for 2 years. It started out great and we were in love and yada yada yada. But then we started fighting. And after a while it was an every night thing. At some point it got to much. I was tired and she was tired. We broke up after 2 years and I couldn’t feel more free. But just because we broke up doesn’t mean I don’t love her. I ofc do. It’s a misconception that once you break up you can’t love each other. So you love you bf but maybe a break is what you need? Ig just a suggestion and ofc you don’t have to take it. Please reach out to me if you still want to talk! I’m always here for you!

That how it started with my exwife. We divorced in 2015. I wish I had some advice, but all you can do is talk to him. If he still wants a relationship, he will talk with you. Not just turn you down. Good luck

I have a similar thing going on tbh…… it’s rough….. I’m sorry….. 💜

Make plans to go out with him. Choose somewhere you are able to handle and treat it like a mini date. Put effort into getting ready, like you would have in the beginning. If his shifts make this difficult, find a creative solution to get around this e.g. I've had a midnight breakfast date before. Look online for a list of questions you can ask each other to get the conversation flowing - there are loads out there. Time and effort lead to intimacy. We accept the love we think we deserve, and it sounds as though you need to show yourself some love first. You deserve a healthy relationship, and you can make it happen - taking the time to post shows that you still care, and this is worth pursuing.