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LaveLavender10

645d

does my boyfriend even love me anymore..? when, we first got together.. we were endlessly happy and we always talked to each other/FaceTimed and we would even play games together but now I just feel like he never has time for me. everytime we talk, he doesn't seem as happy (I can just tell without having to look at him.) and when I say "I love you" whenever we're too busy to talk he doesn't say it back much anymore.. even when I say "goodnight, I love you" he just says "night." things like this are scaring me that he might be bored of me for being with me for a year+..(this relationship being long distance is probably why too.) I feel like our relationship probably lost its spark and Idk what to do.. or even how to tell him without sounding too needy or desperate.

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    • italianxpeaches

      645d

      You're definitely not needy. I understand how you feel. Try to talk to him... It's very easy for relationships especially long distance ones to grow stale over a year or more... Try to voice to him how you feel and maybe ask him if he has any suggestions to bring the spark back or you two can brain storm on ways to make it exciting again. I hope this helps. ❤️

    • italianxpeaches

      645d

      You're definitely not needy. I understand how you feel. Try to talk to him... It's very easy for relationships especially long distance ones to grow stale over a year or more... Try to voice to him how you feel and maybe ask him if he has any suggestions to bring the spark back or you two can brain storm on ways to make it exciting again. I hope this helps. ❤️

    • liv1248

      645d

      please know this 💕 you are NEVER needy or desperate for asking for what you want and need. if he loves and cares for you, he will step up to make a change. and if he makes excuses and doesn’t do that, that’s his problem. you are worthy of everything you ask for. please don’t let anyone tell you different

      • liv1248

        645d

        @liv1248 i’m not sure if you’re in dbt or not but a really good skill to communicate this with him would be the dearman skill. if you have the dbt book i can direct you to the page numbers or i can send you pictures of it, just let me know <3

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