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Poptart101

637d

My boyfriend broke up with me last night. he was all I could have ever asked for. he was everything I wanted in a person. how could I possibly get anyone better? I thought things were going perfectly fine. I thought for sure he would beat my record of my longest relationship which was 3 months exactly (which was also my first relationship), 4 years ago, but I guess not.... he was two weeks away from beating that. I feel so unlikable rn... like no one could possibly love me... I hate myself so much... I wish I was never born....

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    • chungledownbim

      634d

      I feel you. Sometimes it just doesn't work the way you want it to. I've been single for two months now and believe me, its rough. Im always thinking about what could have been, and what i must have done wrong, and how awful it is that i lost the most perfect person out there. But the thing is that perfect people dont exist and neither do soulmates. Relationships are projects. Love is active. We'll find new people, we'll learn how to love them, and i promise you we'll move on :)

    • chungledownbim

      634d

      I feel you. Sometimes it just doesn't work the way you want it to. I've been single for two months now and believe me, its rough. Im always thinking about what could have been, and what i must have done wrong, and how awful it is that i lost the most perfect person out there. But the thing is that perfect people dont exist and neither do soulmates. Relationships are projects. Love is active. We'll find new people, we'll learn how to love them, and i promise you we'll move on :)

      • zucchini64

        634d

        @chungledownbim thank you. moving on is gonna be hard, but it's doable.

    • Hannah_6

      636d

      My hubby is my current longest relationship I've been in. He helped me with my ex and getting out of that. Maybe it's good to take time for yourself and get on Zoloft?

      • Poptart101

        634d

        @Hannah_6 I already tried zoloft and its not as good for me

        • Hannah_6

          634d

          @Poptart101 Maybe talk to your doctor to see if you can find an enhancer too see if you need it badly enough. I know there are two prescriptions you can combine for depression. Not sure if it would work for anxiety too. But I did see some advisements which gave me the idea.

    • lavap

      636d

      that happened to me too, but then i just found a better person. you always find a better person after you think you have found the “best” person.

    • mearbearz

      636d

      Yeah that really sucks, I’m sorry you had to go through that. I had a girlfriend a couple years ago that I felt was perfect at the time, she was pretty, sweet, quirky, was very accepting, and we shared a amount of interests. We dated for a couple months and we tried a relationship out eventually, three weeks later she broke up with me. She has some issues she needed to work out and she felt she couldn’t do it in a relationship. I didn’t do anything and she said as much. I’d wager it’s the same with your boyfriend, but who am I to guess. But regardless it kinda hurt because that’s the only relationship I was in and when she’s the only one that took my hand, it’s kinda hard to see anyone else better. But trust me, there’s someone out there just for you. You just haven’t found that person yet. You just need to be in the right place and in the right time. You’ll find him. Stay strong, and keep busy with things that bring you joy and you will whether the storm. I believe in you girl :))

    • Poptart101

      636d

      He didn't do anything to me... everything was going perfectly.... he was so loving and nice to me....

    • Sophia_Olivia

      636d

      I was in the same predicament a year ago and I learned several things: 1. You don’t want anyone who doesn’t want you. If he left, he’s a jerk and he clearly wasn’t the one. Also, it’s great that he didn’t become your husband one day because divorce is way messier than a breakup. 2. God has better things in store. 3. Sometimes being alone is the upgrade. 4. You will get over him, you will move on, and you will come out of this stronger. There is no special formula to this, it just comes down to one thing: having patience. Keep focusing on the fact that one day, you won’t feel pain anymore when he crosses your mind. 5. Listen to Before He Cheats (by Carrie Underwood), I Will Survive, and lots of Kelly Clarkson :) 6. The ultimate key to not missing him anymore and beginning to like yourself again is by becoming angry at him. Every time you feel yourself missing him, remember what he did to you. You won’t miss him that much after practicing this a lot. 7. your worth DOES NOT DEPEND ON THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN YOUR LIFE OR THE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT YOU ARE IN. Your worth depends on the fact that you were created by God who loves you and wants you here for a specific purpose. Don’t let some jerk dictate your value ❤️

    • zucchini64

      636d

      i thought i found my forever person too, and lost them. you're not alone, give it time and take the lessons you learned from this relationship with you. x

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