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IceCup

471d

TW: physical assault; violent threats My father is not a good person. He’s physically abusive and threatened to k!ll me. Now I might have to go visit him for the first time in years. I know he dislikes me bc I’m a woman and I’m neurodivergent, but It’s like the only emotion he has is anger and he has no empathy at all…

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    • LotusFlower

      464d

      @IceCup then you don't have to go. I say start with a video call. See how that goes and then if you don't get any weird vibes and want to pursue the relationship have a friend go with you but don't go alone and don't stay in his home. Stay at an air bnb or motel where you and your friend can go that way you set the boundaries.

    • LotusFlower

      471d

      Your safety comes first. If you feel unsafe or scared at all, do what you can to calmly get away from him and the situation and find help immediately. There is only one you.

      • IceCup

        470d

        @LotusFlower he lives in a different country so if I go it would be kinda hard for me to escape 🥲

        • LotusFlower

          464d

          @IceCup then you don't have to go. I say start with a video call. See how that goes and then if you don't get any weird vibes and want to pursue the relationship have a friend go with you but don't go alone and don't stay in his home. Stay at an air bnb or motel where you and your friend can go that way you set the boundaries.

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