I feel like it’s so hard to be close to other people. I had a dysfunctional upbringing that makes it hard to know what I should be seeking in close relationships. I’m so used to being alone and handling things on my own, it’s all I can go back to or remember. I don’t feel like I’m doing well at all socially or emotionally, and while some of this is very not true because I’ve made a lot of progress through therapy, there’s still a big deficit in meeting my needs. Would love to hear how others’ experiences are, and solidarity in this.
I definitely relate - terrible childhood with abuse and an abusive relationship in my 20s. It takes time but I think as you experience more positive social interactions, it becomes easier. I always felt like I trusted the wrong people and being a doormat - but I did meet people who were amazing and I’m happily married with a small, but amazing, social circle.
Put yourself out there, be patient and kind with yourself; progress is progress. You can’t rush healing.
I get that. I feel so desperate for a close friend that I can tell everything to and they tell me everything too.
My family wasn't close at all so I think that makes me crave emotion so much. Makes me want more faster. I just have to wait and take it slow so I don't lose friends
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I feel like it’s so hard to be close to other people. I had a dysfunctional upbringing that makes it hard to know what I should be seeking in close relationships. I’m so used to being alone and handling things on my own, it’s all I can go back to or remember. I don’t feel like I’m doing well at all socially or emotionally, and while some of this is very not true because I’ve made a lot of progress through therapy, there’s still a big deficit in meeting my needs. Would love to hear how others’ experiences are, and solidarity in this.
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