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Pain_Warrior89

408d

Does anyone else feel like family and friends leave them out. we've got a big family wedding Coming up n it's being made into a family weekend, everyone's been invited but me, and I used to look after the one getting married! sick of being left out, same family,same friends, everyone's going, family ate staying in a ni e hotel making a long weekend of it..but me

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    • Thick_tubie

      408d

      Yes same here I hate it! Like you could still ask it’s not going to hurt to ask. Being left out is the worse feeling ever I totally feel the same way.

    • Pain_Warrior89

      408d

      yes there all syaying in a hotel for long weekend about 14 (ALL family) I said do I need to book n got told no your not invited , which is ironic as I looked after the person getting married. I helped pull the mum n kids out of a violent relationship. Let them stay at mine. I'd get a calk at 2in morn n I'd go.i introduced the now step parents. I've done so much

      • dolphinblues

        407d

        @Pain_Warrior89 I am so sorry they are treating you like that. It must hurt, especially after helping her so much. Hugs

    • Pain_Warrior89

      408d

      I just can't stop crying I don't want to be here anymore

    • Thick_tubie

      408d

      Yes same here I hate it! Like you could still ask it’s not going to hurt to ask. Being left out is the worse feeling ever I totally feel the same way.

    • LittleMissPinki

      408d

      Ugh, I'm so sorry, that's really unfair. There's no reason for you not to be there! I've have a few experiences like this. However, I am invited to paries/weddings, but no one hardly talks to me, and I feel lonely. I don't mean it as I feel people should pay attendance to me. But what I mean is, I've had family members just say hi to me and speak to my other siblings, so most of the day, I'm just sitting by myself. So i don't rarly go to events anymore.

    • Nannytequila

      408d

      ✋ Since my accident & afterwards having to use a walking stick , I've found I DON'T get invited to "girls nights" & also ignored by the so called "family" ( aunts, cousins etc ). My grandchildren & furbaby show me pure love ❤️ 😍

    • DogWhisperer

      408d

      Did they literally say you weren't invited? Cause you're part of your family, that means you go where your family goes. But I feel ya on the left out part. Even though I would tell would say no, it would still be nice to be asked. But it's whatever to me anymore. I'll just stay here in the comfort of my bed with my doggy who loves me unconditionally.

    • SecondChance

      408d

      My friend 😥

    • dolphinblues

      408d

      I am sorry you are going through this too. It's so frustrating and infuriating. It leaves us wondering what else have we not been invited to that we don't know about. It also makes us wonder why? What's the REAL reason behind it? There have been several times I was left out, as a kid and adult, by friends and family. I'm not sure which feels worse. One that comes to mind is when my kids were around 8 and 10. My family didn't invite us to a Labor day weekend family reunion, which was only a 4 hr drive away from me. I probably would have never known about it if I had not called them. The kids and I were wanting to go see them that weekend since we were going school shopping at the mall near them. You should have heard them stumbling over words as to why we weren't invited. If I wasn't so furious, I would have laughed because it was hilarious how hard they tried to explain it away.

    • picklesandpopcorn

      408d

      I'm so sorry you're dealing with that!💕 Nobody should have to feel like they're being left out for any reason. Whether you have a condition or not, you should be able to be part of your family and your group. Nobody likes to feel less than or like a burden, whatever you're dealing with besides this is not your fault. 💕 I know that it's not great advice, but maybe finding one person who can be your family would be good. Make your own family and remind yourself that you're enough! ❤️

    • StrugglebutnotQuit

      408d

      Sorry to hear that. Sometimes I feel that my friends leave me out. I'm not sure if they think that because of my condition, I won't be up for what they're planning. They tend to not invite me to things then I find out on social media. It can be quite hard.

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