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Starvani

498d

I meet someone and we exchange numbers. We have a lot in common and we talk about making plans to go to the convention together. Now I message her and she doesn’t respond. She tells that she being super busy. I know she goes to school and I understand how that is. She massage me that she not busy anymore. We make plans to meet up. I message before she didn’t respond. That day comes when we said we where gonna hangout. I message her no respond from her. She didn’t even let me know that we where not gonna hangout.

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    • WhiteFlamingo

      496d

      I saw you tell someone that she has anxiety and borderline. I think the best course of action is to talk to her about it. Ask her why she doesn't meet you as planned and make it clear that you want to work through it. See if there is anything you can do to help if it's from her illnesses rather than being flaky. At a certain point, you can just walk away if she's not willing to work with you. But given that she does have mental illnesses that can affect this, give her a chance to work something out with you. Maybe it would help if you picked her up wherever she is rather than meeting her somewhere, if that's possible.

    • WhiteFlamingo

      496d

      I saw you tell someone that she has anxiety and borderline. I think the best course of action is to talk to her about it. Ask her why she doesn't meet you as planned and make it clear that you want to work through it. See if there is anything you can do to help if it's from her illnesses rather than being flaky. At a certain point, you can just walk away if she's not willing to work with you. But given that she does have mental illnesses that can affect this, give her a chance to work something out with you. Maybe it would help if you picked her up wherever she is rather than meeting her somewhere, if that's possible.

    • SeaGnome43

      496d

      😥

    • Country_FLMama

      497d

      Is it possible she has anxiety. I get this way even with close friends..

      • Starvani

        496d

        @Country_FLMama yeah she has anxiety and she has borderline.

    • jodie88

      498d

      Unfortunately there are some flakey people out there that don't think about how their actions are gunna affect you. There's a lot she could have done differently the top of that list would be to have let you known. You definately need to just let her be though, just carry on with your life and don't let her bother you too much. Your right person is out there x

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