I’m going through a rough patch in life. I feel like my life is just kinda happening and I don’t have much control over it. I’m 29 almost 30. The longest I’ve been employed at a job has been less than 3 years average. Since graduating college and getting married 7 years ago I’ve moved(living situation) like 7 or 8 times. I spent 6 years in the automotive industry just to get burnt out. I have so much debt in tools. I finally got a job that I’ve been trying to get since before I graduated high-school, but my employers won’t promote me and I’m kinda done growing in my current position. I like the company and want to stay with them. However due to costs of living going up and rent in my area being expensive I have to move yet again. I had an interview with another location with my job to transfer but I don’t think the interview went well. Everything I do or try just seems to fall apart and I’m so tired and burnt out on trying. I feel like I hardly know myself as a person. I don’t know what I like or even what I want to do in life, I just keep doing what I have to to survive and not end up homeless. Idk how I got here…I feel like a failure and like I’m no good if I can’t keep working jobs. Nothing holds my attention for long and I grow out of my roles too quickly and get bored, without forward progression what’s the point of staying in a position? I’m currently in the process of packing up to move literally across country and live in my in-laws basement because I’m a failure and can’t continue supporting their daughter or myself in life anymore. Most people my age are getting set in careers and buying homes and starting a family and I’m over here just trying to stay off the street.
Anxiety (Including GAD)
it’s really hard to just survive by yourself. don’t beat yourself up.
Literally in the same position. In currently trying to get I got therapy and physical therapy as well. Starting ADHD meds tomorrow to see if I can focus on something long enough to stay off the streets. I’m a handyman but with my ADHD staying busy 5 days a week has been hard. I suck with time management most of the time. Now we are living in an effing camper and I feel like a failure. Under tremendous pressure to get a 9-5 🤦🏽
Really sorry you’re going through this
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