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everyone is in a relationship except me, I'm gonna die single. I hardly like someone and when I do he is already in relationship. and I can't look in the eyes of the people whom I like! cause I'm so shy, and I have to feel 100 intimate to be able to start sth. besides intimacy is a real issue for me, I am so picky and barely feel understood. above all,when I see a person that I like, my brain's like: -escape idiot, now!
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I'm sure you're gonna find your right person and you're gonna live happily ever after
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Ik it’s hard I’ve had relationships everyone of them was a Duddy except for one but I fucked up in that one I’m lesbian but I will wait on the one to find me
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Do what you can to build your confidence/self esteem, acting, sports, gaming with a community can all help. Then you have to be honest with the people you're attracted to, because they may like you too, but doing other stuff because only the other person showed interest. Maybe therapy about the all or nothing view on intimate relations if it isn't working for you. Good luck friend, I'd love to see you in love soon.
@sintristezaporfavor thanks dear , yes I have to consider therapy , I'll share hear if one day I fall in love😁
God I'm so sorry about it, don't give up you just chose the wrong person, and having children and higher BMI is not a problem, who has set these rules?/ All is because we don't love ourselves
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I hope along with you! I'm so glad that spaces like this exist nowadays so that I can help encourage and validate others. ❤️
I was with my husband for 32 years, we split when I was 49. I had one disastrous relationship after my marriage failed and it really knocked my confidence. I think I’m better off on my own. No one would want a weird chubby 53 year old with too many kids and animals anyway!!
@Shamblemama sorry I answered but I guess I didn't choose reply, it's down here
I feel that, since I was in middle school I thought I was going to be alone forever, and still sticks with me, especially with all the bad dates I go on
@Bmanlittle I recommend not going to a date when you know it doesn't worth! When I go on a date with a guy I don't like I just wanna throw up, and I'm swearing to myself in the whole time
Hey, I empathise with you. I am single and have been badly hurt so many times by people I find it very difficult to open up now. Plus in getting older so allot of men my age are taken (the good ones anyway lol) I genuinely feel like I will be single for the rest of my life. Im here to chat if it helps x
@Miss_Construed thank you 💕 let me message you
I was here once. Down to the pickiness, not feeling understood, too shy, pushing people of interest away, all of it. Well, I'm married now, and it took an insanely patient person to give me all the time I needed before I finally had the courage to try dating him. I pushed him away so many times, and he gave me the time and distance that I needed. It took so long for me to develop intimacy with him (it all started in middle school and we started dating when we were 22). Anyway, I wanted to let you know that it's possible, and that you certainly aren't broken or anything like that, okay? You deserve the healthy relationship that you desire. I hope that you don't feel so alone now and that you will find your person like I did soon. :)
@Autemi such a romantic story, yes just like you I need a really patient person I hope I can find it someday...tears in my eyes, thank you for sharing
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