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Brucelee

449d

everyone is in a relationship except me, I'm gonna die single. I hardly like someone and when I do he is already in relationship. and I can't look in the eyes of the people whom I like! cause I'm so shy, and I have to feel 100 intimate to be able to start sth. besides intimacy is a real issue for me, I am so picky and barely feel understood. above all,when I see a person that I like, my brain's like: -escape idiot, now!

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    • Brucelee

      443d

      I'm sure you're gonna find your right person and you're gonna live happily ever after

    • Brucelee

      443d

      I'm sure you're gonna find your right person and you're gonna live happily ever after

    • MidlightTheNightFury

      445d

      Ik it’s hard I’ve had relationships everyone of them was a Duddy except for one but I fucked up in that one I’m lesbian but I will wait on the one to find me

    • sintristezaporfavor

      446d

      Do what you can to build your confidence/self esteem, acting, sports, gaming with a community can all help. Then you have to be honest with the people you're attracted to, because they may like you too, but doing other stuff because only the other person showed interest. Maybe therapy about the all or nothing view on intimate relations if it isn't working for you. Good luck friend, I'd love to see you in love soon.

      • Brucelee

        446d

        @sintristezaporfavor thanks dear , yes I have to consider therapy , I'll share hear if one day I fall in love😁

    • Brucelee

      446d

      God I'm so sorry about it, don't give up you just chose the wrong person, and having children and higher BMI is not a problem, who has set these rules?/ All is because we don't love ourselves

    • Shamblemama

      447d

      ❤️

    • Autemi

      448d

      I hope along with you! I'm so glad that spaces like this exist nowadays so that I can help encourage and validate others. ❤️

    • Shamblemama

      448d

      I was with my husband for 32 years, we split when I was 49. I had one disastrous relationship after my marriage failed and it really knocked my confidence. I think I’m better off on my own. No one would want a weird chubby 53 year old with too many kids and animals anyway!!

      • Brucelee

        446d

        @Shamblemama sorry I answered but I guess I didn't choose reply, it's down here

    • Bmanlittle

      448d

      I feel that, since I was in middle school I thought I was going to be alone forever, and still sticks with me, especially with all the bad dates I go on

      • Brucelee

        448d

        @Bmanlittle I recommend not going to a date when you know it doesn't worth! When I go on a date with a guy I don't like I just wanna throw up, and I'm swearing to myself in the whole time

    • Miss_Construed

      449d

      Hey, I empathise with you. I am single and have been badly hurt so many times by people I find it very difficult to open up now. Plus in getting older so allot of men my age are taken (the good ones anyway lol) I genuinely feel like I will be single for the rest of my life. Im here to chat if it helps x

      • Brucelee

        448d

        @Miss_Construed thank you 💕 let me message you

    • Autemi

      449d

      I was here once. Down to the pickiness, not feeling understood, too shy, pushing people of interest away, all of it. Well, I'm married now, and it took an insanely patient person to give me all the time I needed before I finally had the courage to try dating him. I pushed him away so many times, and he gave me the time and distance that I needed. It took so long for me to develop intimacy with him (it all started in middle school and we started dating when we were 22). Anyway, I wanted to let you know that it's possible, and that you certainly aren't broken or anything like that, okay? You deserve the healthy relationship that you desire. I hope that you don't feel so alone now and that you will find your person like I did soon. :)

      • Brucelee

        448d

        @Autemi such a romantic story, yes just like you I need a really patient person I hope I can find it someday...tears in my eyes, thank you for sharing

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