Struggling to Survive After Losing Everything in a House Fire

@Stronger_Now the local shelters are gender separate so men in one and women in another and they're not in the same town so me and my other half would be separated. I also have a dog that did survive the fire and they won't allow him at all and after losing my SD and with having this boy since he was a baby (he's almost 5) I can't give him up and nobody will keep him temporarily. Those two things make a shelter not an option. Plus you only have so many days like maybe a month or two at the shelter before you have to start paying so much a week to stay there and if you can't pay they put you out. Our area is not supportive or helpful to those down on their luck at all.

@Fiery I've tried to get disability but they said I'm not disabled enough 4 times. But yet I have bipolar, bpd, anxiety, antisocial disorder, anger issues from the bpd, suspected autism, and PTSD and that's just the mental aspect. Physically I have chronic migraines, asthma, allergies, arthritis in my back and hips, a plate in my foot from breaking it twice in one year from being a fall risk, and being tested for chrons disease.

@Fiery Kentucky. We've tried all local programs and no luck. We are trying to get solar set up so we don't have to worry about electric but without income we're pretty much dead in the water. We even tried to get help getting kerosene for heaters during winter and got little to no help. We spent several nights in an uninsulated building with temps 30 or lower.