Sele

300d

Is it really hard to keep relationships with bpd.? I'm really new to this...

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

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  • aleboo

    300d

    not for all but most of the time, yes. do you need any advice?

    • Sele

      300d

      yes please, I just found out I might have it in a bad place and haven't been diagnosed yet but, as soon as it was explained everything just clicked.. I'm really scared.

  • seraph.m

    300d

    I find it quite challenging, I tend to push everyone I love away and then crawl back to them. I have found it hard and lost multiple people from my actions but it got better eventually from my experience personally. You have to put a lot of effort and really choose someone who will actually understand you. It will work out with the right people it just takes a while.

  • Riptide

    300d

    For me it's been very difficult. But I'm extremely jealous, very insecure, require alot of reassurance, and tend to push them away because I'm so afraid they are gonna leave anyway. The worst fear of abandonment

    • Sele

      300d

      I'm sorry I hope things get better!

  • Mia_miatta

    300d

    It’s totes okay 2 b insecure about maintaining relationships with bpd, but be mindful that other people are having trouble keeling things together as well, not just people with bpd are bad at love. Relationship care, and mindfulness practices are essential for maintaining relationship hygiene. I highly recommend youtube videos and a notepad logging your daily reflections on improving,

  • MsDaisyMae

    300d

    I have relationship anxiety for loved ones, especially romantic. I don't want to fall into my impulsivity.

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