Struggling with Low Sex Drive in Long-Term Relationship

Oh wow, I really though I was the only one dealing with this. I have also been with my husband for over 10 years and have completly lost my sex drive. I find that self care and sometimes going the extra mile gives me a little more inspiration. I also want to please my husband and not push him away. It is very hard to get motivated when your tired all the time. I usually take a shower to wake my self up, maybe drink a red bull, get my hair and nails done. I think when you feel more sexy and love on yourself more you would ease into it. My heart goes out to all who are experiencing this. This can put a strain on the marriage.❤️

it’s totally normal to struggle with sex drive when you’re having problems with depression/anxiety etc.

I have the same problem I rarely have a sex drive but what might help is maybe start with just kissing or touching and that might lead to something more