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Really sucks having even less reason to do things my late gf gave me a reason for me to do stuff as of lately no enjoyment nothing really works thc even doesn’t help as much idk my brain is just on the Frits and sometimes I just space out even more contemplating weird things that could just happen to me this whole month has been horrible
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@Moonnite It’s good that you have a friend to talk to, but therapists are professionals and can provide tools + help in a way that your friend can't. Plus it can very easily strain a friendship, and you need a good support network right now ❤️
Grief is a complex process that applies to many things in many ways, maybe none moreso than when we lose a loved one. When we lose someone that gave us the space to talk and figure things out, while feeling safe and secure in a way others never did, it can be hard to imagine you will find it elsewhere. I just hope you keep looking. They learned it from somewhere, and I hope you can find it here (there or somewhere). It might not be the exact way that she did (There's no replacing the hole left by your GF, but hopefully we can build things around what she left), but I hope it can still give you a similar feeling. Sometimes this can be found with a good friend, but sometimes it's also worth trying therapy, even if only temporarily, as they are trained to hold space, and in listening while creating a safe space.
Are you currently in therapy? Might help to have some external factors helping to ground you.
@Skylarkbard I mean I talk to my friend but my gf was the one who broke me and let me feel safe n secure to talk to her it was the love she gave that made me know oh ok I’m safe I just don’t have that I talk to friends but I can sit there and cry or be like oh yeah I sit in my room constantly flipping through games wanting to do something but never figure out what
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