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what are your tips and tricks for grounding yourself when you start to dissociate?

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

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  • YaYa631908

    455d

    Music

  • aeching

    455d

    Getting up and doing something with my hands and focusing on the way everything feels

  • seaborn

    455d

    Coloring and crafting

  • WildQveen

    455d

    Following this because I've been disassociating more than normal the past few weeks

  • Smoky_Fred

    454d

    I have some go-to music and youtube videos, you should use something that takes you to your happy place and distracts you from your spiraling thoughts. Be well!

  • slothlover

    450d

    I use music, the 5-4-3-2-1 rule, and sometimes I'll pull out textured things like a soft blanket or I will run my hands over my diamond paintings if I'm home since I like the bumpy texture. If none of those work, I'll use my weighted blankets to help add pressure and keep me grounded. I will also color or watch youtube videos that I find comforting and relaxing.

  • Fiesty

    450d

    Like everyone else has said, just finding things that make you feel present. Things that cause pressure, things with different textures, things that make you have to think, things that are comforting. I like food (making it and eating it) so I'll find some random recipe and make some crazy food. Also being around other people can help, if you're a people person, and if your people understand and are helpful.

  • Dracaryssa

    412d

    Think 5 senses. Focus on a sound, texture, smell, taste, or something you see in front of you. Better yet, have a set of comforting sensations/experiences memorized in your head so you can mentally revisit them when you need to ground yourself.

  • z0mbunii

    412d

    I do breathing exercises and guided meditation. For the mediation, I found short ones (like 10 minutes) and save the ones I like to a playlist. I like the self-love ones and ones called "body scans" Hope you are well 💕

  • NeverLeaf

    409d

    I sit somewhere quiet and safe where I know nobody is going to barge in, and I hold/wear something that has a lot of sentimental value and think about my favorite things. Sometimes if that doesn't work I just ask for a hug from my sister because I know she won't ask questions and I feel comfortable enough to ask her.

  • ALT_95

    408d

    Any kind of sensory object usually helps me. Fidget toys are great for this actually. I always have a "sensory kit" in my bag when I go out. Tiny fidgets, play dough, weighted objects, squishies, gum, mints, and essential oils. These things are also great for anxiety.

  • jb13087

    408d

    We're still working on this one actually but what we've been doing is if we know a kid always trying to find will do something like adulting that way they kiddo cannot come out because they don't like the adult stuff and if not that we will try to find music that keeps us here or we will pet our cat and the cat helps us to stay here too

  • jb13087

    408d

    But the hardest thing for us is we're also trans so a lot of times when we dissociate we're dissociating because of what we're seeing in the mirror or because of what we're seeing when we have to take our showers

  • Lis

    406d

    I listen to my favorite music and sing as much as I want.

  • JayBird

    404d

    Remember what you’re doing, and start touching physical objects. Remind yourself that you, like that object, are physical and in the now. Not in the airy, dreamless, and always distant future.

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