Struggling with Emotional Control in My Relationship

I’m experiencing the exact same thing right now. I started seeing a guy about 6 weeks ago and I constantly want to spend time with him. But he lost his job and has been stressed and all I want is to spend time with him and make him feel better…but I think it’s pushing him away. He’s been so sweet and even stayed up all night one night to research bpd to understand me better. I’m the type that keeps thoughts and feelings in about things. He sometimes says that he might not understand affect me differently than normal people and I obsess over them on my own. He is patient with me to a point but I feel like I’m too much for him sometimes.