27 weeks pregnant with lupus, in pain and need advice

Hello love - congrats on your pregnancy! I’ve been pregnant several times with Lupus and it can be HARD. (I have two beautiful healthy kids now!) The worst is when doctors actually don’t want to treat you cause you have Lupus, so frustrating. Have you spoken to your OB about your discharge symptoms? It might be a good idea to get a high-risk OB who has some experience working with pregnancy and autoimmune disease. An OB should be able to reassure you that even with the discharge you’re okay for light activity... and this is so important to check out so that you can feel mentally good in the rest of your pregnancy.

Wheeze, seems like you will need help with the other child if possible. But try to stay on a schedule with resting together. Meals on time and getting fresh air. Breath and stay calm.